What???!! Are YOU MaD, I hear you all
shouting at the screen!!! Well, you there half reading, whilst watching some rubbish
on daytime TV and the cat half
arsedly chase a fly ....
No, I’m not mad. If you are afraid
to fail, you will never really succeed after all. We put such emphasis on
success and winning, competing and outdoing others, and little on the real
chance of failure. But people fail every day. Do those people who fail just
disappear in a cloud of embarrassment? I doubt it, not if they want to succeed
in the end, they don’t. No, all people who move onward and upward have tasted
the bitterness of failure. In fact, how can anyone really succeed if there
wasn’t indeed the reality of failure itself?
Like many Europeans, and probably
many other people throughout the world, I watched the recent Euro 2016 football
(soccer) tournament and enjoyed it immensely, apart from England being knocked
out by Iceland. Yeah, I know. Ahem. Anyway, for us Brits, we had four teams
from these isles who qualified for the tournament (Scotland didn’t qualify):
England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Republic of Ireland, so those not too
nationalistic were spoilt for choice really. I have mostly Irish and some Welsh
ancestry, but am also English born, so I could happily support all four teams,
in a sliding scale. When England was knocked out, and the Irish teams weren’t
doing so well, I decided to support the Wales national team, and fair play to
them, they did really well. One of their secret weapons is the world’s most
expensive footballer and one of the most talented and exciting to his credit,
Gareth Bale, who plays for Real Madrid in Spain usually. He is a really exciting player, and helped
push the Welsh national team to the semi finals, only getting stopped in their
tracks by a 2-0 defeat to Portugal. But it was a great run whilst it lasted.
When asked how they got so far, their manager Chris Coleman said he told his
team “don’t be afraid to fail!” which I think was utter genius. It turns conventional
wisdom on its head, because we are usually afraid to reach out for something
simply because we think we will fail. I have spent times in my life being like
that. Now, I am not afraid of failure or desperate for success either, because
they are in some senses more a state of mind than a particular situation. No
person a complete failure, and no person is a complete success either, we can
just fail or succeed at something we do or something we want to achieve. I am
of the firm belief that sticking it out, seeing something out to the end and
seeing whatever we pursue as something to be pursued in the long term is where
we find the best of life and the best of ourselves, too. The short term is
where we all lose, in the end. Just look at our ultra capitalist globalised
world economy to see what I mean. Do I really need to say more?
Being afraid to fail? Don’t be. In
the world, the biggest failure was Jesus Christ, who went to a lonely death,
deserted by His followers and He even asked God if it was possible not to face
the painful, brutal and completely unjust death He faced, knowing it was not
possible. In fact, He wasn’t an ignominious failure, but the greatest success
story we have ever known. In the world, success is being cool, having money,
being handsome or attractive, having everything going well for you. In God’s
economy, success can be something completely different, and what the world sees
as failure God may see as something else. All we do as individuals, whatever
incredible things the most incredible and successful people in the world do and
have ever done, whatever wealth the richest person has amassed, whatever
amazing fame or success any individual or group of people have achieved, is
just a drop in the ocean to God’s Creation. It is also, in the end, or often
can be, an empty experience where the joy fades away and then the desire to
find something else to fill the void that can appear.
Jesus was successful because He
came to serve. Most of us do things for selfish reasons. Just ask yourself what
is your idea of success, and then what is God’s idea of success?
’Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in
Christ Jesus.’ (Thessalonians 5:18)
